Dating a hairy guy?
May 30, 2009 by Rachel Sarah
Filed under Dating
Last winter, Rachel from Single Mom Seeking briefly dated a guy who was on the hairy side (hey, it was winter time, and cold!).
She realized that although a bit of hair on a guy’s chest and back is sexy, lots of hair — we’re talking fur — is NOT.
When she asked women if a [...]
Do you need to move?
May 29, 2009 by Dr. Leah
Filed under Kids, Tips & Advice
Rachel at Single Mom Seeking has been writing about moving to a new home.
While her daughter is handling the situation smoothly, Rachel is stressed.
We know many of you have recently moved, or are in the process of moving. Some of you are selling your homes. Some of you are moving because of lousy circumstances.
We understand.
That’s [...]
US Supreme Court’s Sonia Sotomayor raised by single mom
May 27, 2009 by Rachel Sarah
Filed under Single Moms
When we heard that President Barack Obama had selected Sonia Sotomayor as the newest Supreme Court nominee, we emailed each other right away with shrieks of joy.
We’re very proud of the fact that Sonia was raised by a single mother.
We got emotional when Judge Sotomayer talked about her mom:
“I stand on the shoulders [...]
How do you deal with an absent parent?
May 24, 2009 by Dr. Leah
Filed under Kids, Single Parents, Tips & Advice
“Why doesn’t he call?”
When Solo Mother’s son recently asked his mom about his absent dad, our hearts dropped.
We understand. We know firsthand how much strength, maturity, and compassion it takes to soothe and comfort your kids when they ask about the absent parent.
In her recent post, Solo Mother’s little guy confronted her about why his [...]
Different functional? We love it.
May 22, 2009 by Dr. Leah
Filed under Kids, Single Dads, Single Moms, Single Parents
We’re always on the look out for children’s books that address our families, and we’re very excited about this new find:
Author Lori Hillard once searched, like us, for a book to share with her young son about the real changes in their family life after his parents’ divorce.
Lori found the usual teddy bears and other [...]
Help! Our kids don’t get along
May 21, 2009 by Rachel Sarah
Filed under Dating, Kids, Single Moms, Tips & Advice
A single mom with a toddler son recently contacted us for advice about this dating dilemma.
“I met this wonderful single dad a few months ago at a family event sponsored by the food bank for which we both volunteer. We’re now dating exclusively. And we’re very happy, except for this one issue:
Both of our boys [...]
Why is clutter is the enemy of great sex?
May 19, 2009 by Dr. Leah
Filed under Kids, Tips & Advice
Is your kitchen table heaped with junk mail?
Do you have a jumble of old newspapers or magazines … or piles of dirty laundry?
What’s up with those dead houseplants in your kitchen?
If you’re wondering what clutter has to do with sex, The Sanity Fairy™ will tell you:
Clutter is the enemy of great sex. Why?
Because all [...]
When should a love interest read your blog?
May 17, 2009 by Rachel Sarah
Filed under Dating, Tips & Advice
When do you let someone you’re dating read your blog?
A single mom blogger whom we admire a lot — C. from Running Leap – recently wrote to us with this dilemma:
“I started seeing someone and he knows that I blog, but I haven’t shared the link with him,” she began.
“He knows I have a blog, [...]
Tweeting for love
May 15, 2009 by Dr. Leah
Filed under Dating, Single Parents
For the record, Twitter didn’t grab our attention right away.
After all — or so we thought — it’s enough to keep up with the minutiae of our own lives. Who needs to get bogged down with meaningless trivia from a host of strangers?
Soon enough, however, we noticed that tweeting while dating had become the [...]
Is your ex a playmate or a parent?
May 13, 2009 by Dr. Leah
Filed under Kids, Single Parents, Tips & Advice
Thanks to Kristin from Singlemomatwork for recently highlighting a co-parenting issue that plagues many of us.
Kristin hit on a sensitive topic that we’ve heard many of you bring up here: your ex’s parenting style is very different from yours. You name it, but neither of you see eye-to-eye on:
Kid-appropriate movies (Is your toddler watching [...]
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