We received an email recently from a single woman — who has never been married and has no kids –  about a married guy she’s involved with from work.

“Here’s how it started,” she says. “I work with a guy who told me when we’d first met that his wife has cheated on him a few times. And she doesn’t love him anymore.”

She knows that we’re on the record against dating married men.

And that both of us know first hand the perils of dating a guy still attached to his ex.

She has also heard plenty of truth from you about what to expect when you date a separated guy.

So, we’re hoping you can help out this single woman. She’s got no experience dating a guy with kids.

And she needs a big dose of practical advice. Here’s what she told us:

Things seem fairly obvious to us. So, we’re worried about her. They;re always huddled in conversation at work — and co-workers have noticed. He always wants to know what she’s doing, and with whom.

“I normally don’t date guys with children,” she says. “I know this might just be transitional relationship?  I don’t think he’s ready for a real relationship.  ”

And here’s what she is asking you:

Should I keep things the way they are and give him some time? Or, should I stay completely away and definitely stop having sex with him?

Please offer some advice to our single sister — straight from your heart (and gut).

(Photos courtesy of Nigelmaine and Ario_i via Flickr)

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