And suprise: we totally disagree on this one.

Dr. Leah, aka the Sanity Fairy, was quick to say: “Single parents justifiably complain about having no time for themselves.”

“So, a ‘no kid’ holiday is the perfect opportunity for complete indulgence.”

She suggests that you spend time as YOU choose:

“How about a long soak in the tub without interruption?”

“Eat whatever you want!” (No finicky kid palates means that you can eat peanut butter out of the jar, or have a chocolate day?  How about Chinese take-out?)

“Binge on watching those DVDs you’ve been wanting to enjoy. If you’ve missed Mad Men or  some other series, here’s the chance to catch up uninterrupted.”

“That way, when your kids get home exhausted and cranky, you’re ready to tackle what needs to get done.”

Of course, I think that having a holiday uncelebrated would feel incredibly lonely.

I’m a fan of having a Thanksgiving with your girlfriends, if your kids are with the “other parent.”

Keep it simple! Everyone brings a dish so no one is overwhelmed by the cooking. Share some wine and food, laugh, and catch up. No one needs to spend a holiday alone.

We’re interested to know: Are you going to be kid-less for Thanksgiving?

How do you plan to spend Thanksgiving day?

P.S. Our thoughts on Thanksgiving without your kids were inspired by that blogger who goes by  Ms. V. Thanks!

(Photos courtesy of  Jane and inabeanpod via Flickr)